The Road to Mental Wellness

Tuesday, 16 April 2019

Anxiety And The Mental Health Peace Talks

Anxiety and The Mental Health Peace Talks

For me, if I don't constantly negotiate with my anxiety it will initiate a hostile takeover. It will lay claim to not only my mental health but it will invest its control into wreaking havoc on me physically as well. Learn more about the physical symptoms of anxiety here: Physical Signs of Anxiety.

It's a delicate relationship, the one I have in my head and at times, more often than I care for, I am fooled into thinking that my authentic self and the evils of angst are both honouring the agreement they have signed. That is to allow me to have the peace and happy I deserve.

Of course, the odds are stacked against anxiety because there is never a desirable moment that I wish to compromise and allow it to have free rein over my life. This mental illness is well aware that I never intended it to have any say in how I conduct my life so it jacked up its negative talk, it's fear factor elevated and wanted a seat at the neurological table.
But it only wishes to thrive by ensuring that I isolate myself and see to it that it tanks my self-esteem.  It has, sad to say, been very successful at claiming it's dominance despite many psychological techniques applied and in defiance of the tools I employ to keep it at bay For more on coping tools for anxiety go here: Top 10 Simple Tools to Reduce Anxiety

There are a few things I find helpful, therapy being one of those but as we both know therapist aren't like support call centres, they're  not on call 24 hours a day to provide assistance. But what I found the most helpful when therapy is not available, is to simply give anxiety permission to have the floor and I take the time to work through it, take a day when I need to. It's important to realize that this can only be granted when is necessary.

What I've learned is that a zero tolerance policy is the wrong approach to fighting mental illness simply because, disorders of the mind do not honour any sort of peace agreement. It prefers to sabotage my happiness by its ever lingering presence  in the background, becoming noisier and noisier as the annoyances of life slowly give it enough power to push my authenticity out of the driver seat.  Essentially,  I let it take the wheel and rest until it runs out of fuel and slips into the background once more.

Agreement
So it's kind of like a summit,  Anxiety And the Mental Health Peace Talks seems a fitting title. Basically, what I am trying to say is it's OK if you need a day here and there to allow for the symptoms of your illness to flare up, give yourself that permission. It will pass. Making peace with it and take time for self-care will go along way to maintain overall good mental health. Remember, total denial will only give it power. What's not OK is avoiding what makes you anxious on a continuous basis.

1 comment:

  1. Wonderful post as usual John. It has taken me a long time to accept that I may need to allow myself to have a day here and there, before I would have just fought it out, the world was turning and I needed to be ready to move with it at all times.

    Our mental health doesn't work like that. We need to listen and respect our mental health as much as we do our physical health.

    - Nyxie

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